I just turned 18 and I was having fun hitting the clubs without a care in the world. I was young, good looking and a lot of guys wanted me (I’m not vain, don’t worry). Alas, 4 months of going out was all I was allowed as in June 2004 I found out I was pregnant.

The worst thing was I didn’t have a boyfriend. I had a one night stand 2 weeks earlier, and the only reason I slept with him is cause he was cute, nice and I was off my head. And there’s nothing worse than losing your virginity other than finding out your pregnant two weeks later.

Not helping the situation a week before I found out I was pregnant to him I set him up with one of my friends and she is also pregnant now with his kid. Of course a lot of rumors went around saying I was only saying I was pregnant to him because I wanted him (why would I set him up wit his girlfriend now????) and it wasn’t his kid.

Now Whitney is nearly 2 and he has never seen her nor will he ever. He has no interest in her and I have no interest in letting her see him. People have told me because her father is aboriginal he can come in and take her whenever he wants so I fear sometimes going out with her incase of that. But I refuse to believe it! We are doing fine without him in fact I think its better, she would not have half the stuff she has if I was with him … she would have less.