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Go to the doctors becauce that does not sound right you better off just see what they say
~ Michelle
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Hi Tara,
My Son is almost 19months and i hate sex and find it very uncomfortable and sometime really painful usually right up the back kinda thing and its so annoying because i never wana have it and i know we have to because thats what we do but sometimes it is just horrible! Unless we go a while and not have it then i might want it and enjoy it so it isnt really painful but yeah what the hell hey its so annoying my man wants me to see a doctor asap because he thinks ive been hating sex for too long haha!!
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I have been a bit turned off sex since i fell pregnant with my first, started to hurt then, and usually each time we have sex i feel uncomfortable.... I have seen my GP, I don't have alot of faith in my GP but he said that it all should go back to normal eventually.... and other than that he says its pretty normal once you become a mother to be turned off sex a little more than usual. So i don't know once i have this baby I am going to find a new doctor with a little more insight into the issue, as i think it is an issue, i would love to enjoy my partner as much as i use to. If anyone else has more information I am interested too.
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I feel your pain! I didnt have sex for a year after my daughter was born n its just to painful to think about. Eventually the pain came even when i wasn't having sex and it was so bad once i couldn't walk, i couldn't get up. You should go to see your doctor. Mine gave me some antibiotics for a germ that was in the uterus and thats what yours sound like. It sounds uncommon but is found in woman after they have children and what not. I haven't had any pain since i finished my antibiotics so please go to the docs :)
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I have exactly the same problem i get pain in the same area ever since i haad my daughter 16 months ago. I have been to the doctors, and to a gynacologist (sorry about the spelling) i have had papsmears and ultrasounds and blood tests and everything, they cannot figure out what is wrong. But you are definitely not alone in this, if you do end up finding out what is wrong let us know so i can ask my doctor about it!!!
Sorry I can't help
Love Nicky
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I cant say I have that problem myself but while you were pregnant did you have sex at all??? As I was single all through my pregnancy I didn't have sex once, maybe that might have a little to do with it? Not 100% sure tho!
I also didn't have sex till 4 months after i had kyla and it was weird and felt a little uncomfortable as I hadn't done it for over a year, but after that 1st time Ii was fine!!! I'd definantly ask a doctor or call a specialist and maybe just see if they can actually help before going!!! Hope that might of helped a little bit?
oh also...
they say your body usually takes 2-3 years to get back to normal..... what ever thats suposed to mean... haha
Goodluck!
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Hey Everyone, Thanks heaps for all the reply's, it eased my "fear" alot knowing im not alone, i finally dragged my embarassed & scared self to the doctors & had my pap test .. but now have to wait 3 weeks for results .. I hate waiting lol
But thanks everyone you were all a great help and gave me things to think about!!! Fingers crossed everything is ok :)
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I hope none of you end up like me. My wife had a hard time with my first child, had to be cut. We didn't have sex for 9 months later. Then we had it 10x in a month to have the second child. After the second child was born she moved into another room as to allow me to get sleep. She never moved back and over the next 5 years I had sex with her only 8 times. Several more years went by before I told her I couldn't take it anymore. We work out arrangements which never lasted for more than two months. After 15 years she tells me it was from canal burn. Now we are at close to 19 years since her original pregnancy and my threat last year to leave her if we didn't have sex twice a week has caused her to feel like a whore, even though we only have it about twice a month. In 19 years we have only been together overnight twice without the kids. We have two great kids and are financially sound, but now heading for Divorce Court. I realize that giving birth is a dramatic experience on your body and the pain can be unbearable. I also realized that men will never know the pain that women go through to have children. I applaud you for seeking advice and suggest that you let your husband know exactly how you feel and work together to overcome. My wife waited 15 years to tell me the problem still existed.
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