I agree with Rhi, kids don't really take note too much on these things.If your daughter likes him, she will more then likely enjoy having him around a bit more, but probably not too much so that she loses the attention.
For the first, second, third and consequent nights... I'd keep your daughter away from the bedroom. Get her used to the idea that your partner may be around in the mornings, sharing breakfast etc. If possible, get him to make her favourite breakfast so she can see 'positives' in having him around.
~ Ezza |
i tend to agree that if she likes him, i dont think it should be much of a problem. The only advice i can give is that maybe if the two are you are up before her so that she gets used to him being there in the mornings, before you worry about her seeing someone else in your bed.
But yeah, ive found that my kids tend to pick up on how i feel about certain situations, so maybe if you make it seem like a good thing, then she will see it that way too.
~ Clairebear |