I would just like to say that i believe that the first few months after giving birth is the hardest, some girls have said to me that they thought that the first few months were worse than giving birth!! So just hold in there, im an emotional person and I had alot of help from my parents and my partners parents but still it was very hard, especially when i was breatfeeding once i put him on formula everything seem so much easier.
Dont feel bad going to the doctors for help, u need to look after yourself as well just remember that!

~ Jessica :)

I can agree with you 100%. I have been feeling so crappy lately, and so exhausted. Im so happy around my son, but when im around anyone else im so moody, and i know i am so annoying to be around. My sister goes through the same things with her son, who is 19months, and she suggested for me to take wild for women. I havent taken it as yet, as i forgot where i put it haha ( such a mum thing ). But she found that it gave her energy and everything, made her feel alot better. There are sometimes where i go to bed and havea cry, but i feel alot better after it. Remember there are so many hormones going through your body, as youve just had a beautiful little baby come into your life 3 months ago. Things will be a bit tough at first, my son suffered from very bad colic till he reached 4 months, and it was so hard some nights. But now hes colic free, and as happy as can be. Dont worry if you have a cry, its good to let it out. Maybe try when you are feeling a little down, to go for a walk or something, even if you go alone, or take bubby with you. Hope everything goes well. If you ever need to chat, my msn is **address removed** , and it is good to know where not all alon! xx take care 

~ Char

Hello. Im a mummy of 2. I had post natal depression after my 2nd. I felt the same as you did but i didnt want to go and get help because i thought i'd get over it. In the end i was crying all the time and didnt even want to get up to do anything. So i went to my doctor and he sent me up to the mothers and baby unit. Im not sure if you have one where u are but they are awsome. You have people other then your friends and family u can talk to and even go to have a sleep and they take care of your little one. Although u may feel it isnt bad at the moment you should really go to your doc just so the both of you can keep an eye on it. And even to find out some more info on PND. It is so common i always thought older ladys get it but here i am 22 and 2 babies and i have it. And im not embarressed about it. I guess everyone has some sort of depression after having our little angles but some just get it a little more then others. My email is**address removed** if u want to have a chat or anything. Good Luck!!!

~ Sarah

Hello.. I know exactly how you feel... I was diagnosed with PND when my daughter was 5 months old and ended up seeing my GP and just told him straight. He referred me to a specialist hospital in sydney where i stayed for 6 months. I was so reluctant to go as it was a kinda witch hunt between my parents and husband to get me in there, but had i not gone I would hate to think where i would be today or what state i would be in. The support and help that you recieve in there is amazing. So many people suffer from it. More than what anyone would believe. It helps to talk about things. Many people dont want to go onto medication, but if it helps and keeps you sane, its only for a short time... I hope you get through it alright and feel free to msg me if you want to chat :)

~ Lou