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its hard wen you have a broken up family i have one myself. the only thing i can say to you is that if you deny yur x husband from seeing your children he can go to court and fight for visitational rights which will allow him to have the kids every second weekend and in holidays at least one week, so my advice to you is let him see them. he might change his mind and stand clear of you and the kids again. you could even go see a lawyer and ee wot your chances are like. seeing he stayed away for some tym. i wish you all the best.
~ Bex
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ty, he hasnt been apart of my childrens life for now 12 mnths... ive been and seen my lawyer and she says its a good chnce that he wont get much visitation cause of the distant btween us. plus i also have my daghter enroled in a private skool here, i have a stable home, and i high income. the childern are well looked afta and happy.... and i have to money to get a good lawyer and he doesnt... well ty for the advice...will let u all no wat happens
~ Rebecca
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gee really a tough situation, maybe when the kids get older they will have wished u had let them build relationship with him, after all he is there dad?
you would know him better than anyone tho, whether he has changed his mind and regrets not seeing them or if he has alterior motives? if u get my drift?
best of luck!
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Hi there,
At the moment i am going through a court case cos the same thing....let them see there dad or you could be going through the same thing. The dad has a right to see his children, even if you think it will upset them. You dont want the children to go through a court hearing as it will upset them even more then it would be by letting the dad come on a regular basis. if he is not serious, he will lose interest soon. go with the flow but keep them close to your heart!! All the best and im thinking of you
~ Krissy |
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Hey ..
Im currently getting dragged through the courts by my x .. it's not fun and as happy as me and my son are with my partner (not keehan's dad) i have to let keehan see his father even though he pays no child support and is no a good person etc if you go to court you x will be awarded some sort of access .. my advice to you is to get a good solicitor and fight for what you want. He may not have seen them for 12 months but a court doesnt care they just say "oh well he is there father". Once your children are older they will realise what he is like but until then you just have to put on a smile for your kids and build a great life with your new partner like im doing for my son. It's not easy i know ive been going through it for the past year and a bit but the way i think of it is .. life was never ment to be easy" .. Good Luck with everything :)
~ Tara
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